Everyone's getting married
My entire circle of friends appear to be getting hitched en masse. I
certainly don't want to make it obvious but I guess I'm the only one
remaining who hasn't signed a pre-nup yet. (I meant the marriage
certificate). ;)
Then there are friends from school and college who've been busy
e-mailing wedding invitations to all and sundry. Best friend Lalit got
married last year, old friend Karthik's getting married this weekend,
an ex flame from college got married to a Brit on New Years Eve,
ex-school mate Omar was in such a rush to get married that he almost
forgot to inform everyone while I got the news about another friend's
marriage after she'd had a baby LOL! And it's not just friends, my
cousins appear to be getting all lovey dooey as well. My best cousin
in the world just got married last week while another one's busy with
pre-wedding bashes. I'm not trying to make this sound like a tirade and while it's certainly quite
nice that they've found someone they'd want to spend the rest of their
life with, I must confess to finding it a little strange. I mean I'm
only 25 and most of the guys and gals I mentioned are in the same age
bracket. The mid 20s is a time to enjoy life and do stuff that one
would probably have to refrain from after marriage. Since I'm a true
blue Gemini, I will admit that I haven't been the best guy for girls
to commit to as I find it incredibly satisfying to flirt around with
other lasses. However, deep down in my heart, I'm a hopeless romantic.
All these years I've grown up like any other normal human with the
dream of a romantic proposal, slipping a huge ring on her finger, a
gigantic bash and the memory of a lifetime etc. although for that to
happen, I'd still have to get myself down to committing to someone. I
guess I'm far from the point where I could consider settling down for
such a committed relationship, especially with all the super exciting
things happening on the work front. Sometimes I feel I could be missing out on some of the simple
pleasures of life but then my phone rings and all is forgotten. Now
that I'm the eldest guy in my immediate family who hasn't gotten
married yet, am I to expect an avalanche of ear bashings about the
state of my singledom?